Post # 17 – Learning to Be Okay with Not Being Everyone’s First Call

Posted under: Relationships & Self | The Full Life Edit

There was a time when being “needed” made me feel important. I wanted to be the first call, the go-to, the one people turned to.

But always being on call came at a cost — to my time, my energy, and my mental health.

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What I’ve Learned

• Not being someone’s first call doesn’t mean you’re not valued.
• The right people will reach out when it matters most.
• Your worth isn’t measured by constant availability.

Now, I give my best to the people and moments that truly matter — and I’ve found my connections are deeper and more genuine.

Sometimes, stepping back allows relationships to grow in ways constant closeness never could.

💬 Have you experienced this?

How do you handle shifting dynamics in friendships? I’d love to hear your thoughts.

– M.E